Honestly looking for an answer here (sympathy from other buyers works too). I’ve been scrambling on the market for months, seen at least a dozen homes I love, gotten smiles from listing agents all around…..but then after I submit an already strong offer, everything turns into a blind multiple-counter. And I never even get a call to know why I lost.
No transparency. No actual reason. That’s not purchasing a home, that’s a cloak-and-dagger silent auction. There are no excuses. left for this. I’ve watched several homes come and go where I would have been happy because of this game.
I worked hard for more professional opportunities, sacrificed social events to save for a down payment. I DID ALL OF THOSE THINGS. I’m miserable where I’m living. Prices have gone up visibly since I’ve been on the market, and I’m losing hope to have a space of my own where I can be happy, all because an entire industry has decided to rig the system to say I’m not worthy of a home.
I’m just exhausted, all I wanted was a home of my own.